Surrogacy Laws
Surrogacy Laws In The United States
Creating a family through surrogacy and egg donation takes a variety of experts and professionals – of those, attorneys will play a crucial role during your journey.
The great news here is that no matter where you live, you can become a parent through surrogacy (and egg donation). What matters is the surrogacy laws in the state where your Surrogate will give birth. Surrogacy laws in the US vary from state-to-state based on the Intended Parent/s’ circumstances (single, married, same-sex, citizenship, etc.). Here are some things to know:
- No matter where you live, you can become a parent through surrogacy (and egg donation).
- Only surrogacy laws in the state where your Surrogate will give birth matter. There are currently 47 US states that are “surro-friendly” states – meaning that they accept and recognize Gestational Surrogacy and the contract.
- We only match you with a surrogate from one of these states.
For International Intended Parents, there are a few additional legal considerations that we will make sure to take into consideration when matching.
Why Do I Need An Attorney?
Some people are curious as to why they can’t just print a contract off the internet instead of using an attorney. Here are some basic reasons:
- Surrogacy laws are complex
- Different states have their own requirements
- Laws can change over time
- You want to work with an attorney that specializes in Assisted Reproduction Technology (ART) – since it is very specific state-to-state – and not someone that might do it on the side.
- You want the best representation to support your needs and a contract that will hold up in court. Without an attorney you risk losing those things
Pursuing surrogacy without an attorney’s guidance and expertise can quickly burden you with serious legal and lasting consequences. We are always happy to make referrals, even to those Intended Parents that are not our clients. Feel free to reach out to us.
The Attorney's Role
The attorney’s role goes beyond drafting and reviewing contracts. There are a few milestones during your surrogacy (and egg donation) journey, that you will need the representation and services of a lawyer who is highly skilled and experienced in surrogacy and Assisted Reproductive Technology (ART) law.
Of course, your surrogacy journey is more than a monetary and contractual relationship – it’s bringing a baby into the world! But, as warm and fuzzy as all that can be, the underlying structure is the contract. This agreement lays out both the Intended Parent/s’ and Surrogate’s and responsibilities.
For the Surrogate it includes attending all required medical appointments, maintaining a healthy lifestyle during the pregnancy, and regular contact with the Intended Parent/s. The contract also ensures that the Surrogate relinquishes her claim to parental rights over the child following the birth.
The contract also outlines the Intended Parent/s’ responsibilities to the Surrogate, including their financial obligations and additional expenses they are expected to pay.
The contract will list many of the scenarios that could arise and describes each party’s responsibilities in situations such as a cesarean section or miscarriage, should they occur. Finally, the attorney will make sure that the agreement is enforceable and adheres to their surrogate’s state surrogacy laws.
Before signing contracts each party (Intended Parent/s and Gestational Surrogate and her spouse, if she has one) will have their own legal representation.
Just like with the Intended Parent/Gestational Surrogate Agreement, the Intended Parent/Egg Donor Agreement is there to protect all parties. It too includes all of the parties’ intentions and legal obligations, and states that the Egg Donor relinquishes all rights to the eggs she donates as well as any resulting embryos. The agreement also addresses future contact between the Intended Parents and Egg Donor, which our agency will have discussed and ensured everyone is in agreement prior to drawing up the contract.
Aside from a healthy baby, the most important thing to an Intended Parent is knowing that they are legally identified as the baby’s parent. There will be paperwork for the Intended Parent/s and the Gestational Surrogate (and her husband if she has one) to sign, and there will be papers to file, plus the attorney may have to go before the judge. The good news is that by following all of the laws and working with an experienced agency and attorney you can breathe easy! Once born, the baby is yours and you will be able to receive a birth certificate with your name/s as parent on it.
There are three different case scenarios to establish parental rights depending upon the state your Gestational Surrogate gives birth in:
Pre-birth Order: All court filings and procedures are done prior to the birth. The original birth certificate will be issued soon after the birth with both (if there are two) or one Intended Parent’s name on it. This is usually done 25 – 34 weeks into the pregnancy.
Post-birth Order: All court filings and procedures are done immediately after the birth and the original birth certificate has both (if there are two) or one Intended Parent’s names on it. This is usually done within days after the birth.
Step-parent (aka Second Parent) Adoption: While this isn’t preferred by most, sometimes Intended Parents want to work with a specific Gestational Surrogate in a state where a pre- or post-birth order is not an option. Often one Intended Parent is biologically related to the baby (sometimes both) but the Intended Father will be the only one permitted on the original birth certificate. In this case, an initial birth certificate will be issued with the Gestational Surrogate listed as the “mother”, but will later be amended after the step-parent adoption process is completed and then a new birth certificate will be issued with both of the Intended Parent’s names on it.