Surrogacy Costs & Fees
Transparency Of Journey Costs
For many people, the overall costs of a surrogacy journey is one of the deciding factors in whether or not to even pursue this avenue to have a family. Budgeting for surrogacy is a challenge for many people, and part of our mission is to help keep our costs fair and also competitive.
We try to give you the best estimate of all of the anticipated fees, but each journey and situation is unique, and costs can vary. we are more than happy to talk with you about your specific needs to help you anticipate what expenses you might incur on your road to building your family
How Much Does Surrogacy Really Cost?
Like a baby, each surrogacy journey is unique. Because of this, it is difficult to estimate exactly how much it will cost. Even the most blissful journeys have bumps on the road. Based on our years of experience, we anticipate the total, all-inclusive cost to range from $130,000 to $200,000+.
But let’s break that down a little more:
Domestic Intended Parents
When starting with a fresh IVF cycle using non-donor embryos the average amount spent is $130,000 – $180,000, and when using donor eggs, the range is from $150,000 – $210,000. Although in some cases it could be more less. Rather than going in with false expectations it’s best to hope for the best but plan for the worst.
International Intended Parents
In addition to the fees incurred by domestic Intended Parents, you will need to put insurance for your newborn in place, also called post-birth insurance. There are a few options, but the most costly option would be up to an additional $32,000 for singleton post-birth insurance. The cost for twins goes up exponentially.
While there are no guarantees, we always try to do our best to keep costs under control while making sure that the Surrogate receives the compensation and reimbursement she deserves.
Here is a detailed list of the costs and fees you can anticipate on your surrogacy journey
Where Your Money Is Going
This is a big and complex journey that literally takes a village. So, to help simplify the costs and give you a foundation for planning we have created four different categories you can anticipate needing funds for.
Here’s what is included in each one:
1. Professional Fees
While surrogacy may be new to you, some people have years of experience helping others. These are the people you should anticipate paying professional service fees to; your surrogacy agency (hopefully us!), lawyer, psychologist, insurance agent, and escrow company.
Managing a surrogacy journey and all the moving parts can be very time-consuming, which is why many Intended Parents choose to work with – and pay – a surrogacy agency to handle all of the details. The agency fee covers many aspects of your surrogacy journey, including –
- Management of your entire journey, from start to finish
- Screening & matching you with your Surrogate
- Journey support for Intended Parent/s and Gestational Surrogate
- Trust Account management/disbursement of funds
- Legal interface
- Insurance interface
- Overseeing communication between hospital for the birth, birth certificate, and passport agency (if needed)
- For egg donation (if you need one) there will be a separate agency fee
As with so much of this, it is hard to give an exact amount of the costs for legal work because lawyers set their own fees which may vary, and each state’s laws may require different amounts of legal work. You must work with an attorney that specializes in third-party reproductive law. When you retain your attorney (usually after the match) you will get a better idea of the costs for your particular journey.
Psychological Evaluation
All Surrogates, and often their spouses or partners, will need to have a psychological evaluation done by a licensed psychologist specializing in surrogacy and egg donation. Some clinics may require you to do this with their own in-house therapist, but many allow those Intended Parents to work with a Psychologist that the agency recommends. As with most things, costs will vary between therapists.
If your Gestational Surrogate has her own medical insurance -- that is not a signal that you are home-free and that the pregnancy will be medically covered.
In fact, many insurance policies specifically exclude a surrogacy pregnancy. And to make matters worse, the language is often obfuscated – which is why you need a person that specializes in insurance for Surrogates.
When working with an agency they will most likely know these specialists. If the insurance does not cover a surrogacy pregnancy, the Insurance Agent will enroll the Surrogate for a policy and monitor payments throughout the journey. This is an invaluable staff member.
The money for your journey is not held by you, and should never be held by your agency.
It will be put in an escrow (aka trust) account held by a bonded agent. This may be your surrogacy attorney (although many do not offer this service), or a company that specializes in such things. If you use our agency, we can connect you with the proper professionals that may offer discounts through the agency.
2. Surrogate & Egg Donor Fees
These fees are paid directly to your Surrogate and Egg Donor and include their base fee and supplemental fees.
This probably sounds like a broken record, but it is hard to pin down the actual costs of the supplemental fees for your Surrogate. But one thing that you will know at the start of your journey is her “base fee” (that’s the amount she is paid for the pain and suffering endured for carrying your baby – that’s the legal term for it). Again, these amounts range between states and Surrogates. This amount can also vary based on if she has insurance if she is an experienced Surrogate and as stated above, where she lives.
Even though money can be a part of the incentive for your Surrogate, our goal is to work with women who are not Surrogates solely for financial gain but are involved because they feel it in their hearts the desire to give the gift of life to families who can’t do so on their own.
Supplemental fees, aka The Benefits Package, can include childcare, lost wages, maternity clothes, additional medical procedures (i.e., C-section, termination, and so on), mileage reimbursement, monthly allowance, and more as will be outlined in the contract with your surrogate.
When you select your Egg Donor her base fee will already be established by her and the agency. Egg Donor fees can vary depending upon education, talents, accomplishments, looks, experience, and so on.
The money for your journey is not held by you, and should never be held by your agency.
It will be put in an escrow (aka trust) account held by a bonded agent. This may be your surrogacy attorney (although many do not offer this service), or a company that specializes in such things. If you use our agency, we can connect you with the proper professionals that may offer discounts through the agency.
3. Medical & Insurance Expenses
We all know how babies are created, but gestational surrogacy has changed the rules. So, beyond the traditional Obstetrician appointments and hospital costs, there will also be IVF costs, embryo freezing, and medications to add to the mix.
Prior to becoming pregnant, the Intended Parents will incur costs through the IVF clinic for their embryo creation and for all costs to prepare their Surrogate for the embryo transfer. Those fees will include medications, laboratory testing and ultrasounds. Once pregnant, she will be released to her OB around 10 weeks along. At that time, her insurance should cover the bulk of the bills, but there will be copays for testing and doctor visits. Do check with your clinic as to their anticipated costs for IVF, medications, embryo freezing, etc.
There are two types of insurance that are important in your surrogacy journey. The first one will cover your surrogate during the pregnancy, and the second type of insurance that will cover your baby once the umbilical cord is cut. Intended Parents are responsible to pay for both (if the surrogate does not have her own insurance). Please reach out to us so we can tell you more if you’d like.
4. Variable Expenses
When we talk about variable expenses, we mean things like purchasing additional health and life insurance for the Surrogate, travel expenses, multiple transfer attempts, additional legal and medical services, etc. Understanding what expenses/services are included in the fees you pay your fertility clinic, attorney, and agency will help you move forward confidently.
Special Discount Programs
We make every effort to give you the support you need and to help you control costs. This is why we created the following offers:
Egg Donor/Surrogacy Discount
This is our way of showing you our appreciation for entrusting us with both of your journeys! If you select an Egg Donor with us and also pursue your Surrogacy journey with us, we will give you a $1000 discount off your Egg Donor Program fee.
Cancer Survivor Discount
Getting a cancer diagnosis undoubtedly throws a wrench in anyone’s life, and if it has affected your fertility, please let us know. If needed, we will gladly offer you a discount. Please talk to us about this.
Sibling Journey Discount
For those Intended Parents who’ve had a great journey with us (so many of them have — just check out our testimonials , we also offer discounts whether you work with the same Gestational Surrogate or start your sibling with someone new. Feel free to ask us about this.
Financing
We know that affording a fertility journey can put a strain on many budgets. So, to help make your journey as stress-free as possible; we have reached out to reputable lenders. So, you may get financing options tailored to your specific fertility journey.
New Life Fertility Financing
Loans up to $100,000
Loans up to $40,000 for medical expenses
Both Prosper Healthcare Lending and New Life Fertility Financing include:
- Immediate decisions for loans under $35,000
- Term options extending to 84 months (with affordable monthly payments)
- No transaction fees
- No prepayment penalties
- An easy online application process
In addition, your clinic may offer financing programs for the medical aspects of your journey. So don’t forget to ask them.